kay. Lately I've been feeling unsatisfied with my lifestyle, unsatisfied with my priorities, and unsatisfied with how I feel about the importance of living a life sold-out for God. Now I know that what I'm about to say might be kinda extreme, I certainly will offend you, and you'll probably disagree with me, but if I can accomplish anything with this Note I would at least like you to think and re-evaluate how you feel about where you are right now. May I not get in God's way.
So. Here's the thing.
I am raised in a Christian home and I love my parents so very deeply. I am not allowed to watch most movies and TV shows, raunchy music has never even been an option, and I'm not even allowed to go to some birthday parties or sleepovers. I am so thankful for this and I will certainly implement these restrictions on my own children. Using my parents, God has saved me from so many things that would still affect me today.
However (and I know I'll offend people when I say this, so please don't be mad at me), I am living the American dream. And I don't like it. I live in a nice house in the suburbs and I have nice things in my room and I watch my nice TV shows every Monday and it's been ingrained in my head to vote republican and to have a certain theology. My parents' dream for me (and what used to be mine) is to go to a certain schnazzy Christian university, find a husband there, get married, and basically repeat the lifestyle that I have now.
However, lately God's been kind of breaking everything that I thought that He wanted for me...and I thought this solely because it's what I'm told He wants for me. I seriously do not feel led to go to that fancy university (though this may change as God may want me there but He hasn't revealed it yet) and go to a nice college where I dine in a luxurious cafeteria and go to the movies with my boyfriend and maybe once a year go on a mission trip. There's got to be more, right??
I'm not satisfied with "living comfortably." Isaiah 55:2 (I realllly like this verse) says "Why are you spending your money on what is not bread and your wages on what does not satisfy? Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good. And delight yourself in abundance." I honestly can't look at a pack of earrings---of ANY value---and say "Okay, this will satisfy me. This will edify the Body. This will make God happy." Nor can I say that with a Starbucks, a Wii game, the latest Weird Al CD, or anything else like that.
We live in such a materialistic world where hedonistic spending of time and money is not only tolerated, but it's EXPECTED. And this is disgusting.
I KNOW I'm going to step on toes here, but what do you think Jesus would do with $10? Would he go with the disciples to see the Dark Knight? Doubt it. Would He buy a Celine Dion CD (even if it was clean and there was nothing bad in it?) I honestly don't think so. I think He would buy groceries for a struggling low-income family, or buy a homeless guy some socks or something. Or maybe He would take a lost friend to Burger King just to encourage them and let them know that He loves them. Or he would spend the money on stationery and make a card for a Brother or Sister that He knows is struggling...
Luke 16:13 says that “you cannot serve both God and money.” 1 Timothy 6:10 bluntly states that “the love of money is the root of all evil.” So is it wrong for a Christian to have lots of money? . I believe that we should buy what we need, that Christians should not be wealthy if they want to honour God, and that the Bible clearly spells out how we’re supposed to spend our time and money.
Throughout the Bible, there are numerous examples of good, Godly people being very wealthy. Abraham, the father of many nations, had great wealth (Genesis 13:2.) Job had a tremendous amount of material possessions (Job 42:12.) King Solomon is the richest man that has ever lived, and he got his wealth by means of God-given wisdom (2 Chronicles 1:11-12.) In fact, Solomon himself said in Ecclesiastes 5:19 that “when God gives any man wealth and possessions, and enables him to enjoy them, to accept his lot and be happy in his work---this is a gift of God.” So with a verse like that, we are led to believe that if God gives you money, spend it on whatever you want because He would want you to be happy. Well, earlier in Ecclesiastes, Solomon had just been talking about how even all the wealth in the world cannot bring happiness; only God can satisfy!
In Isaiah 55:2, God is saying that He is all that’s good; everything else just leaves you empty and wanting more. The LORD created everything in the earth, so it would just be silly to devote one’s life to the creation rather than the Creator! You cannot take your bank account with you to Heaven. What matters to God is not your extensive collection of CD’s or how many times you’ve seen a certain movie or how many friends you had or how "hot" all the guys thought you were, but God cares about what you did for Him while you lived those few years on the earth.
Many people justify their mass riches, though each excuse can be refuted with Biblical truth. They claim that the more money they get, the more money they can give away. Though this makes sense on the surface, these people ignore the fact that God doesn’t need our money; it’s all His anyways! (Psalm 24:1) In Mark 12:41-44, Jesus commends the woman who gave two little coins for offering, and says she has put more in than those who could fill the treasury to the ceiling. For they gave money out of their abundance, yet she gave all she had. We are not to give money out of abundance but out of a desire to please Him and of reliance that God is going to provide, no matter what. They also say that God gives good gifts, so we must enjoy them. This is true, but it is a far great blessing to give to someone who can’t pay you back on this earth, rather than to enjoy something that can give you momentary joy! (Luke 14:13-14.)
The ultimate question is what actions one can take to spend their money the way God would want them to. John Piper calls us to live a wartime lifestyle; to live simply and be free of the American dream. (2:06 on "A Wartime Lifestyle"...you can watch it on Youtube.) With the money that one would spend on a designer bag or a mocha latte, they ought to give to those who cannot earn their own. (Emphasis on CANNOT, not "choose not to.") This would include giving money to a struggling family who wants to go on a mission trip but cannot afford the plane ticket, or buying food to donate to a food bank, or buying Bibles to be sent across the globe to those who cannot even read the Word for themselves because it is not available there. But even doing something close to home, like the examples I mentioned earlier. Yes, there are scammers out there and people who pretend to be homeless…but people ought to do their research and instead of just giving money to a homeless man, buy them lunch or a new pair of socks. They can’t trade that in for drugs or other addictions.
Jesus said more about money than He did about Heaven and hell combined (That's in 0:50 of "A Wartime Lifestyle".) In Matthew 19:24 Jesus said that it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God. The reason we have money is to show the world that money is not our treasure, but Christ is our treasure; this shows the great value of the LORD. ("A Wartime Lifestyle", 1:47.) He is worth it! He is so worth it! Moses understood this. He could have lived as a prince, but “he chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a short time. He regarded disgrace for the sake of Christ as of greater value than the treasures of Egypt, because he was looking ahead to his reward.” (Hebrews 11:25-26.) His treasure was not in an earthly city, but in the lasting City to come. May this be our mindset also, and not buy mansions or sportscars or $200 pants, even if we have the means to afford it. We can't take those to Heaven!!! (That's what the Egyptians would do...they'd bury their jewels and gold and money and even servants with them because they thought that all those things would go with them in the afterlife. What a tragedy to see all those things still here in the pyramids! Also, no matter how many riches they had or how popular they were, they were not putting their trust in Jesus Christ for salvation and consequently they are burning in hell right now!!! How tragic!)
It's okay to be uncomfortable. For example, my friend Brian (he's suuuuper skinny) was sharing with me one time about how he gave blood...I don't exactly remember what happened, but he got all weird-feeling and he went through some moments of extreme discomfort. When I heard this, I was like "Oh no. This will happen to me too...I don't think I can ever give blood." And Brian was like "But it's so worth it to have a few moments of discomfort in order to possibly save someone's life!" And that's true...people who are dying because of a lack of blood are probably way more uncomfortable than I would be if I got shaky and fainted from giving a bit of my blood. The same can be said with our time and money and possessions...and what others think about us. Invite the unpopular kid to your house just to hang out...even if they are annoying or they're super shy and no fun at all, this will mean the world to them! A few hours of boredom will bring you more blessing than hanging with the most popular kid in your school. Once you're made uncomfortable, that means you'll have to tap into another Source for comfort---and God is the giver of comfort...rest in Him!
So basically, if our hearts are SOLD OUT for Christ, that wouldn't leave any room for anything else, right? I'm trying to have a child-like faith here but I could be wrong in my thinking. I mean, of course we must spend time with the "seeking" but just because we should be relevant to them doesn't mean that we should have everything in common with them! How are we supposed to be different if we look exactly like them? Please tell me if you disagree with me and why. And if I'm coming across as arrogant or pious, I am so sorry and I am trying to speak in love as much as possible.
Something I've learned is that the applause of God is greater than the approval of man. In "Don't Waste Your Life", John Piper was talking about a huge tragedy of this couple who was retiring to Florida to live on the beach and collect shells for the rest of their life. What a waste!!! When they meet God on Judgment Day and He says "Why should I let you into my Heaven?", they will show them their shells and say "We had a great, relaxed couple of years!!!!" That just doesn't do it! And even if they had trusted in Christ for their salvation and they were already let into Heaven, what if God said "What did you do for Me for the 80 years I gave you on earth?" A collection of sea shells is not pleasing to the LORD! As Victor said a few years ago, "One thing that there won't be in Heaven is lost people." If we're going to be witnesses, if we're going to love on the unloveable, we'd better do it now! This is nearly impossible if we're tied down by the things of this world.
But an important thing to note is that it's not necessarily what you DON'T do (or what ungodly things you abstain from), but what you DO. In James 1, it says "Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained from the world." Make sure that you're not just keeping "unstained"; make sure that you yourself are staining the world with the love of God!! Visit the orphans and widows. Love the unloveable. Do it. I dare you.